Be Strong and Believe in Yourself... Stay Focused.

Be strong. 

You can't because the world seems so against you. People are in there just tearing you down. 

You have to be strong, in the perfect of ways for your kids... Just keep trying, keep working, and keep going.  

All you can do is do your best, and be strong.  Stay focused.  You can do this.  You can raise your kids to be the best they can be.  


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