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Be Strong and Believe in Yourself... Stay Focused.

Be strong.  You can't because the world seems so against you. People are in there just tearing you down.  You have to be strong, in the perfect of ways for your kids... Just keep trying, keep working, and keep going.   All you can do is do your best, and be strong.  Stay focused.  You can do this.  You can raise your kids to be the best they can be.  
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All the LOVE You Have to Give - Give it to Yourself

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My whole life I was always pleasing others, serving others, and making others feel good & loved.  I didn't mind, I was conditioned to just not mind.  Conditioned to just be a "good girl."  Do right by people, and assumed they'd love me back the same way.  Feeling like I have an abundant amount of love to give, just in hopes to be loved the same way back!  I was doing it all wrong, I was giving and pouring myself out my whole life into the wrong people.  
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I Marry Me Today - Goodbye to What was Supposed to-be...

 I thought I found my guy and that was it.  We have a family, and we live happily ever after.   But instead, it was pure hell for years and years.  My first bad relationship was with my own family, and I got out just enough to make into a bad marriage with an abusive man.  Then even after I made it out, I got love bombed by a felon who was on probation.  If that was how he was described as maybe I wouldn't have believed everything, but what he showed me for so so long was a whole different man than the man he truly was.  He became more abusive than my ex-husband in a very short time, while one took over a decade, this one took just under three years to become so clear.   After over 35 years, I choose me.  I choose my happiness and my children's happiness.  No more.    So today, I marry myself.  Never will I let someone take over me and put me down like my whole life... 
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